My heart stopped for a second when I saw your post's title in my email inbox. Beyond terrifying. I'm also incredibly impressed with your son. I can't guarantee my 7 and 9 year old sons would respond the same way, so this is a somber reminder to have another conversation with them.
Unfortunately in the hospital, I have seen way too many children (and adults) die from gun violence. I joined this organization a few years back because I neeeded to do something with my sense of helplessness - https://momsdemandaction.org/
I hope no one jumped to the worst conclusion based on the title! I tried to use the byline to provide reassurance that everyone was safe! I am sure you have seen so much at the hospital. My husband said he heard an NPR report this morning where they interviewed an ER doctor I believe, about the number of kids that come through the ER with firearm accidents. I also joined Moms Demand Action a few years back, thank you for the reminder! I definitely need to do more, to hopefully feel a little less helpless.
Gosh, this is horrifying. And makes me very glad to live in a country with much tighter gun controls. Looking from a distance, the gun culture in the US seems utterly insane. Thanks for sharing your message.
It’s an incredibly divisive and emotional discussion in the states, which is one reason why I bet this won’t get shared much. As a parent, it feels like a really hopeless battle.
That's sad to hear Amber and yes, must be terrifying as a parent with all the school shootings that hit the headlines. And yes, I have noticed that anytime I share something that leans towards the political, it tends to get less feedback on here. Important to speak it nevertheless...
The nausea hits like a ton of bricks. So glad your kiddo has that trust and faith in your relationship to come straight to you, and to your point, even kids who have that, may also have curious parts that could override that instinct. I hate that this is a conversation I will soon have to have with my son.
Right. The study I quoted put a group of kids through a gun safety program and compared them to a group who had not gone through the program. Then they “tested” the kids by putting them in a situation where a gun was present. Half the kids still picked it up, and there was no difference between groups 😫
Wow! I can’t believe it, this sounds like it was a very upsetting experience. As a mom, I feel your fear, nausea, disbelief, sorrow. I did not realize that Guns have been the leading cause of death among children in the last few years. My God.
This quote: “The victims are the children who do not get to feel safe. Safe in their schools, their homes, their neighborhood streets. Their ball fields.”
Goodness what a terrifying event when what should be a fun and playful and safe!!!! time. I’m so glad he is safe and the gun is gone. Thanks for sharing 🩷
This is the top reason why I don’t live in the US. Every society has things they do/do not accept. I cannot accept this one. I refuse, refuse, refuse to send my child to school in a country that regularly experiences school shootings, with a government that does nothing about it, when I have other options.
I know, preaching to the choir. But you raised so many points that I would’ve here, when writing about this subject, and it’s nice to see that from an American. Were I to really go off, I’d further connect contemporary gun issues directly to late-stage capitalism. But I’d connect the overall societal willingness to tolerate and compartmentalize the violence to the legacy of slavery.
Chills. This is so horrifying. There were two shootings outside my daughter’s school in March of students from the school. It is so depressing. I’m tired of feeling so helpless in the face of something with an easy solution.
This is so terrifying. I’m so glad your son was well “trained”, but like you said, it shouldn’t be up to a child to have to be the adult! I’ve never seen a gun either and I would have been completely shocked.
My heart stopped for a second when I saw your post's title in my email inbox. Beyond terrifying. I'm also incredibly impressed with your son. I can't guarantee my 7 and 9 year old sons would respond the same way, so this is a somber reminder to have another conversation with them.
Unfortunately in the hospital, I have seen way too many children (and adults) die from gun violence. I joined this organization a few years back because I neeeded to do something with my sense of helplessness - https://momsdemandaction.org/
I hope no one jumped to the worst conclusion based on the title! I tried to use the byline to provide reassurance that everyone was safe! I am sure you have seen so much at the hospital. My husband said he heard an NPR report this morning where they interviewed an ER doctor I believe, about the number of kids that come through the ER with firearm accidents. I also joined Moms Demand Action a few years back, thank you for the reminder! I definitely need to do more, to hopefully feel a little less helpless.
Oh no, I thought it was a great hook! I didn't go to worst conclusion - finding the gun alone is scary enough!
Gosh, this is horrifying. And makes me very glad to live in a country with much tighter gun controls. Looking from a distance, the gun culture in the US seems utterly insane. Thanks for sharing your message.
It’s an incredibly divisive and emotional discussion in the states, which is one reason why I bet this won’t get shared much. As a parent, it feels like a really hopeless battle.
That's sad to hear Amber and yes, must be terrifying as a parent with all the school shootings that hit the headlines. And yes, I have noticed that anytime I share something that leans towards the political, it tends to get less feedback on here. Important to speak it nevertheless...
The nausea hits like a ton of bricks. So glad your kiddo has that trust and faith in your relationship to come straight to you, and to your point, even kids who have that, may also have curious parts that could override that instinct. I hate that this is a conversation I will soon have to have with my son.
Right. The study I quoted put a group of kids through a gun safety program and compared them to a group who had not gone through the program. Then they “tested” the kids by putting them in a situation where a gun was present. Half the kids still picked it up, and there was no difference between groups 😫
That’s so disappointing that there was no difference between groups. But all the more reason to get rid of guns!!!
Wow! I can’t believe it, this sounds like it was a very upsetting experience. As a mom, I feel your fear, nausea, disbelief, sorrow. I did not realize that Guns have been the leading cause of death among children in the last few years. My God.
This quote: “The victims are the children who do not get to feel safe. Safe in their schools, their homes, their neighborhood streets. Their ball fields.”
🙏🏻🥲
Thanks for the kindness Kay. It’s such a challenging time to be a mother.
Indeed it is. We need each other more than ever before. Grateful for your friendship!
Goodness what a terrifying event when what should be a fun and playful and safe!!!! time. I’m so glad he is safe and the gun is gone. Thanks for sharing 🩷
Thanks for reading Lindsey. It doesn’t quite feel real! So bizarre.
This is the top reason why I don’t live in the US. Every society has things they do/do not accept. I cannot accept this one. I refuse, refuse, refuse to send my child to school in a country that regularly experiences school shootings, with a government that does nothing about it, when I have other options.
I know, preaching to the choir. But you raised so many points that I would’ve here, when writing about this subject, and it’s nice to see that from an American. Were I to really go off, I’d further connect contemporary gun issues directly to late-stage capitalism. But I’d connect the overall societal willingness to tolerate and compartmentalize the violence to the legacy of slavery.
Chills. This is so horrifying. There were two shootings outside my daughter’s school in March of students from the school. It is so depressing. I’m tired of feeling so helpless in the face of something with an easy solution.
This is so terrifying. I’m so glad your son was well “trained”, but like you said, it shouldn’t be up to a child to have to be the adult! I’ve never seen a gun either and I would have been completely shocked.